My daughter is 18 months and still wants me to feed her every night. She will not take a bottle.?

She also will only sleep with me at night and it is making my nights very stressful. she is in daycare all day and does not take a bottle for nap time. When I pick her up from daycare and take her home she will cry until I feed her and then again at bedtime she wants me to feed her. How can I change this habit? She will not take a pacifier. I regret that I waited this long. Any suggestions.